This is what I am trying to do. From here on.
(via creatingaquietmind)
Need to get this off my chest.
I need to say this, and I feel like this is the best way. Time for a 1:30 a.m. rant.
Why can’t people just be up front with how the feel about a person or where they stand with them? It isn’t fair at all to the one party if they put their whole self out there and get nothing in return.
I know guys like to claim that girls are known for doing this and are terrible for doing this. But in my past 3 years of univeristy I have learned that no…it is not girls who have this issue…it is guys. In my experience they are the ones who are sending the mixed emotions and mixed signals on how they feel and cannot just flat out give an answer on where they stand with a person.
Why can’t people just be blunt with how they feel? Yes, it may hurt the person for a second to learn the truth but it will be a whole heck of a lot better for it to hurt that one second then for them to be patient with someone, and kind with someone, and caring, and try with that person and never get a hint (or get mixed hints) on how they feel about the person in return and hurt for longer. Right?
So, this year my resolution is to, try, and be blunt and stop caring, and trying with people who don’t make an effort or give me any hint as to where I stand with them. It is not worth my time or efforts.
This is going to be hard for me since I can’t help but be nice to people, even if they treat me like crap, but for my own sanity and emotional stability, I need to try and hopefully succeed.
If anyone can relate or give me words of encouragement or has somewhat similar feelings please, please do respond. I would like to know that I am not the only one.
